I started out tonight with plans of exploring another sex-related spot in Second Life so that I could bring back all the necessary details to allow my readers to make an informed decision, but as we all know - sometimes plans change.
I actually did teleport to one spot but I was so disappointed in it I refused to blog about it. Yes, it was that bad.
After that, I decided to try once more and teleported to the "Cumslut Cafe", and that's where today's discussion begins.
I've been to several sex-related spots and I've had more than one discussion about sexuality and sex in a virtual environment, but I was not at all prepared for what I was about to encounter in the Red Light District at the Cumslut Cafe. I'll save the review of the Cafe for another time, but suffice it to say that it was definitely an interesting thing. The most interesting thing, however, is that I only saw ONE person actually IN the Cumslut Cafe and she was camping on a sex toy trying to earn lindens. I considered it just for the sheer enjoyment, but there was a sign saying you had to be naked if you were 'on stage' and I'd just gotten dressed, so screw that.
When you teleport to the Cafe, you'll land in a courtyard area outside the cafe itself. This area is where everyone congregates, and it was crowded when I was there. I was a little disoriented, because there are people everywhere, but no one speaks. Took me just a minute to realize that 90% of the people in this courtyard define themselves as escorts or prostitutes and are just there hoping to be hired by someone.
Now I've seen escorts before, in clubs and other sex spots, but never like this. It was an eerie sort of quiet there, so of course I broke the ice by asking who liked peanut butter. Seemed as good a question as any in this spot.
Once people started talking, I was able to ask some more relevant questions about how things worked there. I have to say, that I was amazed. Lots of girls there, each with their own 'look', their own rates, their own 'thing' going on, but no cattiness, no fighting, no one trying to 'beat out' anyone else. Just standing there, with no one saying a word, you could feel that there was respect - which might seem a bit silly to say in a spot like that, but it's true. Everyone was there respecting what everyone else did, no one judging anyone, no one putting anyone down. It was good.
I was able to chat with a few folks including one fantastically wonderful escort that has agreed to let me interview her in the near future about her experiences. I'm really looking forward to speaking with her and getting her viewpoints and her story.
I think that not only in Second Life, but in online communities in general, it's fascinating to think that every single person you see has a unique and interesting story to tell. All there for different reasons, but I bet there are a lot more similarities that we might think initially. I can't wait to continue this conversation with my new friend, but until then.. if you visit the Cumslut Cafe, go ahead and strike up a conversation, there are some great people there.
-xopixox
Friday, July 20, 2007
Saturday, July 14, 2007
Sexstination #8 - Masturbation Station
Today my sexy train pulled into the Masturbation Station in Goangeo and although I didn't see any redcaps anywhere, I managed to find my way around the station on my own.
The "Masturbation Station" is actually a separate room off the 'Bound Club". You have to go into the club to get into the station which is no big deal.
The Bound Club is a very red-themed club with a dance floor and some pole dancing. Nothing too fantastic, but more your run-of-the-mill dance/sex club.
Off to the side, however, is our destination of choice - the Masturbation Station. When I first walked into the room, I have to say I was a bit disappointed. More 'blah' looking things without any real style or any thought given to the atmosphere. Sex clubs in SL could and SHOULD be *HOT* people. The color red alone does not make a club 'hot'. Trust me on this.
Anyway..
The 'station' has a pole to dance on, and a circle jerk area for women (from what I could tell) along with a sofa where your fabulous guys or girls can watch you dance or reach orgasm.
Off to the corner, another separate area for masturbation so if you wanted to get out of the craziness of the circle/pole area, this is another place to do it. There are some poseballs here that I tried out, but I ended up floating in the air while I was touching myself and that was a bit odd. Although I love that 'floating' or 'out of body' experience while I'm coming in the physical world, it's a little hard to get used to in the virtual world. Maybe that's something to experiment with or think about. Why DOES it seem better to masturbate on the ground? If you really stop and think about it, I bet it'd be amazing to do it floating in the air!
If you keep walking around the perimeter of the Masturbation Station, there's a chaise lounge sitting by itself. This has some LOVELY masturbatory animations in it, so I recommend taking a moment and giving this a shot. I enjoyed it.
I've saved the best for last, so here it is: The Sensual Mirror. This mirror's in the corner of the room and it says that you can look at yourself and choose what gender you'd like. I was intrigued. I stepped in front and choose 'male'. Your cam is rotated so that you're actually looking at yourself through the back of the mirror. The mirror then becomes transparent and you begin masturbating using gestures common to the gender you've chosen. *NICE*. This was brilliant. I stood there flipping back and forth between male and female for quite a while! This is one of the neatest little toys I've seen in a while and I loved everything about it.
Nothing says "Self-Love" like staring at yourself in a mirror and watching while you touch yourself. Been there, done that. You should too.
-xopixox
The "Masturbation Station" is actually a separate room off the 'Bound Club". You have to go into the club to get into the station which is no big deal.
The Bound Club is a very red-themed club with a dance floor and some pole dancing. Nothing too fantastic, but more your run-of-the-mill dance/sex club.
Off to the side, however, is our destination of choice - the Masturbation Station. When I first walked into the room, I have to say I was a bit disappointed. More 'blah' looking things without any real style or any thought given to the atmosphere. Sex clubs in SL could and SHOULD be *HOT* people. The color red alone does not make a club 'hot'. Trust me on this.
Anyway..
The 'station' has a pole to dance on, and a circle jerk area for women (from what I could tell) along with a sofa where your fabulous guys or girls can watch you dance or reach orgasm.
Off to the corner, another separate area for masturbation so if you wanted to get out of the craziness of the circle/pole area, this is another place to do it. There are some poseballs here that I tried out, but I ended up floating in the air while I was touching myself and that was a bit odd. Although I love that 'floating' or 'out of body' experience while I'm coming in the physical world, it's a little hard to get used to in the virtual world. Maybe that's something to experiment with or think about. Why DOES it seem better to masturbate on the ground? If you really stop and think about it, I bet it'd be amazing to do it floating in the air!
If you keep walking around the perimeter of the Masturbation Station, there's a chaise lounge sitting by itself. This has some LOVELY masturbatory animations in it, so I recommend taking a moment and giving this a shot. I enjoyed it.
I've saved the best for last, so here it is: The Sensual Mirror. This mirror's in the corner of the room and it says that you can look at yourself and choose what gender you'd like. I was intrigued. I stepped in front and choose 'male'. Your cam is rotated so that you're actually looking at yourself through the back of the mirror. The mirror then becomes transparent and you begin masturbating using gestures common to the gender you've chosen. *NICE*. This was brilliant. I stood there flipping back and forth between male and female for quite a while! This is one of the neatest little toys I've seen in a while and I loved everything about it.
Nothing says "Self-Love" like staring at yourself in a mirror and watching while you touch yourself. Been there, done that. You should too.
-xopixox
Monday, July 9, 2007
Sexstination #7 - Chase's 200m High Club
Tonight we visit a skybox sex club called "Chase's 200m High Club". Now, if you're like me, you automatically think of an airplane themed sex club where people can truly live out their 'mile high' club fantasies. Lovely stewardesses (flight attendants, whatever) in snazzy uniforms with nasty short skirts just waiting for you.
Well, you'd be wrong. I know. I was disappointed too. If anyone out there has a sim and is looking for something snazzy to do with it.. build that. I'll be the pilot. Or the flight attendant.. either one.
Anyway, back to the 200m Club.
When you arrive, you teleport into a diner sort of area with stools and booths and straight in front of you is the sign with the 'Visitor Rules" for the Club. Very important rules such as "No Griefers" (whew, good thing we put that up. I bet all those griefers will turn and run now!) and "No serious age play" (which I gotta say, I was pleased to see. Those kid avs creep me out, too).
If you walk down the ramp into the club, you'll walk underneath a archway of balloons and into the club itself. It's a lot like most of the other sex places we've visited, although I do think that perhaps this one has a heavier lean on masturbation because I saw a lot of random dildos scattered about and there were a lot of 'masturbation' and 'watch' poseballs as well.
The club does have a pool area with a 'make love' poseball set on the diving board and some sofas to the right as you enter the club. If you continue past the sofa area, you'll see a larger room scattered with rugs. Here's where all the magic happens, I'd guess. There was a sunken lower area as well, and maybe that's more 'performance' oriented - at least it felt that way to me.
I only saw 4 people while I was there, so if you're looking for a nice private place to have sex or masturbate, this one might be a good choice for you. It's all free, so it's a pretty relaxed atmosphere and a LOT less crowded than the Free Sex/Orgy Room I mentioned previously.
There are also some shops up in the area where we arrived, but not many, so your time is better spent on the rugs releasing some tension.
-xopixox
Well, you'd be wrong. I know. I was disappointed too. If anyone out there has a sim and is looking for something snazzy to do with it.. build that. I'll be the pilot. Or the flight attendant.. either one.
Anyway, back to the 200m Club.
When you arrive, you teleport into a diner sort of area with stools and booths and straight in front of you is the sign with the 'Visitor Rules" for the Club. Very important rules such as "No Griefers" (whew, good thing we put that up. I bet all those griefers will turn and run now!) and "No serious age play" (which I gotta say, I was pleased to see. Those kid avs creep me out, too).
If you walk down the ramp into the club, you'll walk underneath a archway of balloons and into the club itself. It's a lot like most of the other sex places we've visited, although I do think that perhaps this one has a heavier lean on masturbation because I saw a lot of random dildos scattered about and there were a lot of 'masturbation' and 'watch' poseballs as well.
The club does have a pool area with a 'make love' poseball set on the diving board and some sofas to the right as you enter the club. If you continue past the sofa area, you'll see a larger room scattered with rugs. Here's where all the magic happens, I'd guess. There was a sunken lower area as well, and maybe that's more 'performance' oriented - at least it felt that way to me.
I only saw 4 people while I was there, so if you're looking for a nice private place to have sex or masturbate, this one might be a good choice for you. It's all free, so it's a pretty relaxed atmosphere and a LOT less crowded than the Free Sex/Orgy Room I mentioned previously.
There are also some shops up in the area where we arrived, but not many, so your time is better spent on the rugs releasing some tension.
-xopixox
Saturday, June 30, 2007
naked on the internet
That's an attention getter, eh? It's also the name of the latest book I've picked up on amazon.com. Naked on the Internet is a new book by Audacia Ray that examines female sexuality and the internet. I think it'll be a dreamy read. For those of you interested in this sort of thing, I highly recommend picking up this book. For everyone else, I'll let you know how it was after I finish reading it.
Thanks to Violet Blue for keepin all of us sexy people informed.
-xopixox
Thanks to Violet Blue for keepin all of us sexy people informed.
-xopixox
Wednesday, June 27, 2007
i'm looking for something in purple...
Isn't it about time for a new vibrator? I thought so. We're heading over to Eden Fantasys (their spelling, not mine) right now to check out the selection.
Eden Fantasys is located in what might be the most fantabulously done treehouse in all of Second Life. Without a doubt the best treehouse I've seen. Not sure how sex toys end up in a treehouse, but we all did things as children that perhaps we shouldn't have so maybe a treehouse is a perfectly appropriate spot for some sexual experimentation. Who am I to say.
Anyway, back to the matter at hand. Sex toys. We need them.
Eden Fantasys has a WIDE variety of sex toys to choose from, but here's the twist. Not only can you buy genitalia, sexual equipment and poses for your avatar.. you can ALSO buy sex toys for your lovely physical self at their website. Now, here's where I'm going to say that I usually detest the marketing schemes of people directing people to out of world sales for your 'physical' self. To me Second Life is all about escaping the real world and anytime I'm linked back to a real website for a 'real' sale, I get irritated. It's disturbing to me to be jostled out of my virtual utopia and told that I should buy something in the physical world. Don't like it - not one little bit. If we're in a virtual environment, keep it here.
That being said.. Eden Fantasys is one place that's got it right. In the treehouse you're shown a myriad of sexual aids all created with prims: dildos, vibrators, etc. If you click on any of these, you are magically transported to the treehouse 'branch' that has these items for sale and you're presented with high-quality photos of each item. If you click on the item, you'll see it enlarged and then be asked if you'd like to be taken to the website where you can purchase it. As a girl who has shopped for her share of sex toys, I gotta say.. that I kind of dig this way of shopping. It's a bit more personal than the website, and I honestly wouldn't mind shopping for some real sex toys this way. Nice job you guys, nice job.
If you're shopping for that special penis or pussy for your avatar, they've got that covered to. Click on your sexual part of choice and be taken to a tree branch and surrounded by sculptured models wearing the parts you've chosen. Talk about a kid in a candy shop!
I think this place is beautifully done. The only issue I have is the spelling mistakes in the name and in their notecards, but .. I'm overly picky about stuff like that. When you're horny and shopping for sex toys, sometimes spelling properly isn't that important.
So if you need a new vibrator, dildo, or anything else sexual for you OR your avatar, come check out Eden Fantasys - you'll thank me later after you're done screaming my name.
-xopixox
Eden Fantasys is located in what might be the most fantabulously done treehouse in all of Second Life. Without a doubt the best treehouse I've seen. Not sure how sex toys end up in a treehouse, but we all did things as children that perhaps we shouldn't have so maybe a treehouse is a perfectly appropriate spot for some sexual experimentation. Who am I to say.
Anyway, back to the matter at hand. Sex toys. We need them.
Eden Fantasys has a WIDE variety of sex toys to choose from, but here's the twist. Not only can you buy genitalia, sexual equipment and poses for your avatar.. you can ALSO buy sex toys for your lovely physical self at their website. Now, here's where I'm going to say that I usually detest the marketing schemes of people directing people to out of world sales for your 'physical' self. To me Second Life is all about escaping the real world and anytime I'm linked back to a real website for a 'real' sale, I get irritated. It's disturbing to me to be jostled out of my virtual utopia and told that I should buy something in the physical world. Don't like it - not one little bit. If we're in a virtual environment, keep it here.
That being said.. Eden Fantasys is one place that's got it right. In the treehouse you're shown a myriad of sexual aids all created with prims: dildos, vibrators, etc. If you click on any of these, you are magically transported to the treehouse 'branch' that has these items for sale and you're presented with high-quality photos of each item. If you click on the item, you'll see it enlarged and then be asked if you'd like to be taken to the website where you can purchase it. As a girl who has shopped for her share of sex toys, I gotta say.. that I kind of dig this way of shopping. It's a bit more personal than the website, and I honestly wouldn't mind shopping for some real sex toys this way. Nice job you guys, nice job.
If you're shopping for that special penis or pussy for your avatar, they've got that covered to. Click on your sexual part of choice and be taken to a tree branch and surrounded by sculptured models wearing the parts you've chosen. Talk about a kid in a candy shop!
I think this place is beautifully done. The only issue I have is the spelling mistakes in the name and in their notecards, but .. I'm overly picky about stuff like that. When you're horny and shopping for sex toys, sometimes spelling properly isn't that important.
So if you need a new vibrator, dildo, or anything else sexual for you OR your avatar, come check out Eden Fantasys - you'll thank me later after you're done screaming my name.
-xopixox
Monday, June 25, 2007
oh yes.. the bunny suit is mine
Well my lovelies, you're looking at the newest bunny on the scene. Playboy offered me the bunny suit today and there was no way I was turning that down.
I'll be working some evenings during the week between 4-6PM SL at the Playboy sim. If you're around and want to say hi.. that's when I'll be there. Probably a bit more on the weekends as time permits.
Thanks, Playboy.
-xopixox
Sunday, June 24, 2007
Sexstination #6 - Hedonism
On a tip from a friend, I went to visit Hedonism today. She suggested that I check out the Tiki Lounge there, but I found myself wandering around the entire sim to see everything.
When you arrive at Hedonism, the Tiki Lounge is directly in front of you and up a ramp to an elevated platform. The huge Tiki in front will guide your way so just go where he tells you. The Tiki Lounge is a large dance club and my friend informed me that it's often quite naughty, but I must say that on my visit, everyone was very calm and clothed. I must say I was a bit disappointed, but didn't let that stop me from enjoying myself a bit. There are also spiral ramps in the back of the club that lead you to a loft overlooking the dance floor and there are some 'casino' related games up there so if you're into that.. have at it. I loved the Tiki Lounge most for its tropical atmosphere. It's truly well done and does make you feel like some thought was put into the design, and hey isn't that refreshing.
After my little dancing moment at the Tiki Lounge, I was off to explore the rest of the island. A large (and I mean large) portion of Hedonism is dedicated to all of your sexy shopping needs. There are clothes, shapes, skins, animations, tattoos, and lots of other things included genitalia if you've just met that special someone and have no parts to make your first sexual encounter all it could be.
On the other side of the island, there's a fantastic beach area with a large campfire and lots of beach/lounge chairs. There are also some 'camping' spots, so if you need to make some cash you can do that here, and be surrounded by sexy people all at the same time! I also noticed a large 'Help Wanted" sign there, so if you're a DJ, hostess, dancer or poker dealer (who knew), you can get a real job here and stop wasting your time on that camping towel.
I must say that up to this point, I was feeling a smidgey bit sad that I really didn't see any places to get it on. In a place called 'Hedonism', a girl would think you'd at least be able to throw down with someone if the mood struck you. Then I walked down the beach a bit and breathed a sign of relief as I passed into a fenced area. Here we had a huge hot tub (although the 3-way poseball set in there is deceiving - it's just a snuggling pose), several sex poseball sets scattered a polite distance from each other and designated by a little cute, floaty, double-heart icon near them, and my favorite: the gazebo area with the cunnlingus poseball set in the center and a bunch of 'watch' poseballs around it in a circle. For those of us who enjoy being watched, I gotta say... bit of a turn-on. I did try it out, but when it's just you it's somehow not quite the same.
So my discovery of this area at Hedonsim restored my faith in the sexy. With a great dance club, tons of shopping, a fantastic beach, and sexy sexy spots.. Hedonism is worth a visit. Try out the cunnilingus poseballs - you never know who might be watching.
-xopixox
When you arrive at Hedonism, the Tiki Lounge is directly in front of you and up a ramp to an elevated platform. The huge Tiki in front will guide your way so just go where he tells you. The Tiki Lounge is a large dance club and my friend informed me that it's often quite naughty, but I must say that on my visit, everyone was very calm and clothed. I must say I was a bit disappointed, but didn't let that stop me from enjoying myself a bit. There are also spiral ramps in the back of the club that lead you to a loft overlooking the dance floor and there are some 'casino' related games up there so if you're into that.. have at it. I loved the Tiki Lounge most for its tropical atmosphere. It's truly well done and does make you feel like some thought was put into the design, and hey isn't that refreshing.
After my little dancing moment at the Tiki Lounge, I was off to explore the rest of the island. A large (and I mean large) portion of Hedonism is dedicated to all of your sexy shopping needs. There are clothes, shapes, skins, animations, tattoos, and lots of other things included genitalia if you've just met that special someone and have no parts to make your first sexual encounter all it could be.
On the other side of the island, there's a fantastic beach area with a large campfire and lots of beach/lounge chairs. There are also some 'camping' spots, so if you need to make some cash you can do that here, and be surrounded by sexy people all at the same time! I also noticed a large 'Help Wanted" sign there, so if you're a DJ, hostess, dancer or poker dealer (who knew), you can get a real job here and stop wasting your time on that camping towel.
I must say that up to this point, I was feeling a smidgey bit sad that I really didn't see any places to get it on. In a place called 'Hedonism', a girl would think you'd at least be able to throw down with someone if the mood struck you. Then I walked down the beach a bit and breathed a sign of relief as I passed into a fenced area. Here we had a huge hot tub (although the 3-way poseball set in there is deceiving - it's just a snuggling pose), several sex poseball sets scattered a polite distance from each other and designated by a little cute, floaty, double-heart icon near them, and my favorite: the gazebo area with the cunnlingus poseball set in the center and a bunch of 'watch' poseballs around it in a circle. For those of us who enjoy being watched, I gotta say... bit of a turn-on. I did try it out, but when it's just you it's somehow not quite the same.
So my discovery of this area at Hedonsim restored my faith in the sexy. With a great dance club, tons of shopping, a fantastic beach, and sexy sexy spots.. Hedonism is worth a visit. Try out the cunnilingus poseballs - you never know who might be watching.
-xopixox
Wednesday, June 20, 2007
Sexstination #5 - Sensual Elements
Sex spot of choice today - Sensual Elements in the GOL Project.
When you teleport to Sensual Elements, you arrive on a lovely wooden deck area in a wooded setting. To your right you'll notice some posted rules, one of which was 'No pictures". I considered trying to get around that by using the argument that they aren't actually 'pictures', but 'snapshots', but decided to obey the rules for once. I must say though, pictures would have been nice because it truly is a very picturesque setting and it would have been nice to let you all see it. I guess you'll just have to go visit yourselves.
There's a teleport on the right side of the wooden decking that takes you to the 'camping' area. Being the naive, foolish girl that I am.. in this wooden setting, for just an instant I thought that perhaps there actually *was* a campground with some facinatingly sexual undertones. Those pup tents can get pretty hot sometimes. But, alas, they actually meant 'camping' in SL terms. Being the curious sort, I teleported up to the camping area and was terribly disappointed. A large platform in the sky, not disguised as anything else, with a large sign and dozens of people perched on the sign, or standing around waiting for a coveted spot SITTING on the sign to make a whopping few lindens every 15 minutes. Maybe this is just me, but if you're running a sex-related sim empire, toss in some free sex poseball sets and make people earn their money in the camping area. At least then those of us waiting for our turn would be somewhat entertained.
The Sensual Elements "Club" area is just down the wooden walkway from where we arrived. The club has a board outside with all of the events for the day posted on it. There were quite a few listed for today including a Catsuit Leather Dance Party! Meeee-YOW! The club features a very large dance floor with dance cages, a bar, and a DJ setup/stage area. One side of the club features live, nude dancers looking for some tips, so if you visit, give it up for the girls. If you're looking for an escort to make your time in Second Life all that you've dreamed it could be, this is a great spot to find one as they've dedicated an entire room to photo after photo of escorts available to make all of your dreams come true.
Not far from the club is another large building called the "Elements Lounge" and for all of you sexual entrepreneurs just looking to make your mark, this building is for SALE! I must say, I was relatively impressed with the inside. Very colorful, fun and fairly well done. It could be nice and has potential. Check it out.
The GOL Project doesn't neglect those of you looking for a shopping fix, either.. oh no my friend. There are many shops too including one of my favorites.. Nocturnal Threads. I think I like that one so much because it always makes me think of sheets after someone has a wet dream. Not to mention, their clothes are crazy, funky, fun. Dig them. Another item of note in the shopping area.. the prim pussy with tintable pubic hair for only L$199! What a DEAL!
If you end up loving GOL so much that you never want to leave, you are in LUCK! With an entire residential area featuring private homes renting for around L$3000/week for between 800-1200 prims, you can truly *live* in GOL and enjoy all they have to offer.
-xopixox
When you teleport to Sensual Elements, you arrive on a lovely wooden deck area in a wooded setting. To your right you'll notice some posted rules, one of which was 'No pictures". I considered trying to get around that by using the argument that they aren't actually 'pictures', but 'snapshots', but decided to obey the rules for once. I must say though, pictures would have been nice because it truly is a very picturesque setting and it would have been nice to let you all see it. I guess you'll just have to go visit yourselves.
There's a teleport on the right side of the wooden decking that takes you to the 'camping' area. Being the naive, foolish girl that I am.. in this wooden setting, for just an instant I thought that perhaps there actually *was* a campground with some facinatingly sexual undertones. Those pup tents can get pretty hot sometimes. But, alas, they actually meant 'camping' in SL terms. Being the curious sort, I teleported up to the camping area and was terribly disappointed. A large platform in the sky, not disguised as anything else, with a large sign and dozens of people perched on the sign, or standing around waiting for a coveted spot SITTING on the sign to make a whopping few lindens every 15 minutes. Maybe this is just me, but if you're running a sex-related sim empire, toss in some free sex poseball sets and make people earn their money in the camping area. At least then those of us waiting for our turn would be somewhat entertained.
The Sensual Elements "Club" area is just down the wooden walkway from where we arrived. The club has a board outside with all of the events for the day posted on it. There were quite a few listed for today including a Catsuit Leather Dance Party! Meeee-YOW! The club features a very large dance floor with dance cages, a bar, and a DJ setup/stage area. One side of the club features live, nude dancers looking for some tips, so if you visit, give it up for the girls. If you're looking for an escort to make your time in Second Life all that you've dreamed it could be, this is a great spot to find one as they've dedicated an entire room to photo after photo of escorts available to make all of your dreams come true.
Not far from the club is another large building called the "Elements Lounge" and for all of you sexual entrepreneurs just looking to make your mark, this building is for SALE! I must say, I was relatively impressed with the inside. Very colorful, fun and fairly well done. It could be nice and has potential. Check it out.
The GOL Project doesn't neglect those of you looking for a shopping fix, either.. oh no my friend. There are many shops too including one of my favorites.. Nocturnal Threads. I think I like that one so much because it always makes me think of sheets after someone has a wet dream. Not to mention, their clothes are crazy, funky, fun. Dig them. Another item of note in the shopping area.. the prim pussy with tintable pubic hair for only L$199! What a DEAL!
If you end up loving GOL so much that you never want to leave, you are in LUCK! With an entire residential area featuring private homes renting for around L$3000/week for between 800-1200 prims, you can truly *live* in GOL and enjoy all they have to offer.
-xopixox
Tuesday, June 19, 2007
sex and coffee
I started out my evening by relaxing at the Open Latte Coffee Shop in the sim of Mill Pond and was quickly intrigued by a conversation that was started among a group of people there.
We began discussing sex and Second Life, and opinions on said topic varied from 'it's silly' to others feeling that it's possible to truly find a love online and commit to a monogamous, long-term relationship. I think that's part of what's interesting, so many people with so many different opinions, experiences, and preconceived notions of what sex should or could be in a virtual environment, and what constitutes an 'affair' or 'cheating' online.
The coffee shop discussion today focused around one woman in particular who was sharing her experiences with us. A happily married 30-something in the 'real' world, she'd been involved with someone in SL and had her heart broken. Her online relationship was with a well-known person with many friends, and when the relationship ended, she lost not only her love, but a large number of friends as well, and in a virtual world with over one million residents that log in regularly... she felt alone. After wandering around aimlessly for a bit, she found herself in a roleplaying sim considering work in a sex club there.
This particular woman said that she never felt guilt about her online relationship, and that she never once considered it to be cheating. I know that many people have discussed this and there are a lot of varied opinions on what exactly constitutes 'cheating', and I'm of the firm belief that that's a personal decision and opinion between you and your partner.
This poses a lot of questions not only in the virtual world, but the real world as well. What sorts of things would cause someone who is happily married in RL to become involved with someone online? Is it the relative 'safety' of online communities that allow experimentation without the risk of getting caught? And how, or why, in a world as large as Second Life, would someone feel alone.
What do you think? Let's hear it.
-xopixox
We began discussing sex and Second Life, and opinions on said topic varied from 'it's silly' to others feeling that it's possible to truly find a love online and commit to a monogamous, long-term relationship. I think that's part of what's interesting, so many people with so many different opinions, experiences, and preconceived notions of what sex should or could be in a virtual environment, and what constitutes an 'affair' or 'cheating' online.
The coffee shop discussion today focused around one woman in particular who was sharing her experiences with us. A happily married 30-something in the 'real' world, she'd been involved with someone in SL and had her heart broken. Her online relationship was with a well-known person with many friends, and when the relationship ended, she lost not only her love, but a large number of friends as well, and in a virtual world with over one million residents that log in regularly... she felt alone. After wandering around aimlessly for a bit, she found herself in a roleplaying sim considering work in a sex club there.
This particular woman said that she never felt guilt about her online relationship, and that she never once considered it to be cheating. I know that many people have discussed this and there are a lot of varied opinions on what exactly constitutes 'cheating', and I'm of the firm belief that that's a personal decision and opinion between you and your partner.
This poses a lot of questions not only in the virtual world, but the real world as well. What sorts of things would cause someone who is happily married in RL to become involved with someone online? Is it the relative 'safety' of online communities that allow experimentation without the risk of getting caught? And how, or why, in a world as large as Second Life, would someone feel alone.
What do you think? Let's hear it.
-xopixox
Friday, June 15, 2007
the interview - playboy bunny
I had my interview today for the 'Playboy Bunny" position, just a few hours ago in fact. It was a very surreal experience, and I was more nervous than I typically am for a job in the 'real' world! It was crazy!
I want to be a Bunny. I WANT IT. Oh my gosh if I don't get this, I will be so disappointed.
Basically they had us submit a resume and then we stood in a poseball looking f'ing cute as hell while they asked us some questions about ourselves and Playboy and what we thought the position meant. Then they told us we'd hear from them if they were interested.
Oh GOD let them be interested.
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